Thursday, April 17, 2008

ForGIVEness

People said sorry seems to the hardest word, but is that really that hard? Is that very difficult to ask for forgiveness? Someone's ego will drop just by saying SORRY?? Is that so?

Ask for forgiveness… Forgiven­ess when each day I chose my dreams over my relationship.. Forgiv­eness for each time I couldn't make it for dinner because of other last minute meetings…. Forgivenes­s for each time where I didn't steal a single moment out of my busy day to give her a call and say that I miss her… Forgiveness coz I didn't even spend a few hours to go out or catch a movie with her….. Forgiveness coz I didn't listen to her sadness even though I knew she have a problem and need a shoulder to lean on… Forgiveness for each time I forgot to kiss on her forehead to show some love... Forgiveness for all the promises that I've broke….. or Forgiveness for each minute when I hurt her feelings and didn't even bother to make up….. But most of all…Forgiveness for all those innumerable moments when I forgot to tell her how much I love her… Assuring that I will have a lot of time to say so but I was wrong…. I LOST THAT TIME WHEN I LOST HER...

That's why I always say that time means NOW… If u have to love, LOVE NOW… If u have to ask forgiveness.. ASK NOW… If you want to hold hands… HOLD NOW…. If you love someone so deeply… tell them that you do NOW… Don't wait until tomorrow… Because if tomorrow never show up… you will definitely regret the day…. Don't wait until its too late….. Make a move while u can......

I won't Hold You Back

If I had another chance tonight
I'd try to tell you that the things we had were right
Time can erase the love we shared
But it gives me time to realize just how much you cared
Now you're gone, I'm really not the same, I guess I held myself to blame
Time can erase the things we said
But it gives me time to realize that you're the one who's sad

You know I won't hold you back now, the love we had just can't be found
You know I can't hold you back now

Now that I'm alone it gives me time to think about the years that you were mine
Time can erase the love we shared
But it gives me time to realize just how much you cared

You know I won't hold you back now, the love we had just can't be found

You know I can't hold you back now, the love we had just can't be found

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Women as Explained by Engineers!

Part I - (Algebra Explanation)


Well as you can see this solution equates that Women = Problems!

Part II - (The Safety Engineer's/Chemical Engineer's Explanation)


Part III - (Statistics Explanation)

ABC of Friendship


Tuesday, April 8, 2008

i'll be over you

Some people live their dreams
Some people close their eyes
Some people's destiny
Passes by

There are no guarantees
There are no alibis
That's how our love must be
Don't ask why

It takes some time
God knows how long
I know that I can forget you

As soon as my heart stops breakin'
Anticipating
As soon as forever is through
I'll be over you

Remembering times gone by
Promises we once made
What are the reasons why
Nothing stays the same

There were the nights holding you close
Someday I'll try to forget them
Someday I'll be over you

Loneliness

Loneliness is too close a companion for me to be at all objective. It has gone
home with me on long walks, sat with me through numerous silent evenings, stood
with me in the middle of a group of laughing people, and lay across the bed with
me while I cried because I didn't know what else to do. It seems that even when
I escape it for a while, it is waiting not too far away. We have long talks,
loneliness and I, and I have to say that I have learned much more from our journeying
together. We have become friends. But the friendship was a long time in coming.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

The One that Got Away

In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with...and the one that got away.

Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.

I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in away that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.

How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big, inconsequential become deal breakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flash point of that fact.

Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready. It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll will make sense, it really will.

So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you've become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.

You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?" That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.

If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often, but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.

But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do if it's not yet too late? Simple....find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?

Ask him/her out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you just might be "the one that got away" as well as for the person who is your "the one that got away."

You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away. "